The hardest part of a few new relationships is when the initial excitement wears off and therefore the reality of your differences creeps in.
Sometimes these differences balance the 2 of you out and cause you to stronger, but sometimes they’re deal-breakers and may tear you apart.
I’ve always been very outgoing and once I started dating someone who is an introvert and didn’t enjoy loud and crowded social situations the maximum amount as I do, I used to be caught off guard.
It took a touch of labor to work it out if it had been getting to bring us closer or tear us apart.
I used to be mad at him for being introverted initially
It’s hard to know the attitude of people sometimes and that I just couldn’t understand how someone wouldn’t want to enjoy a loud band or hoot and holler with their friends during a club.
I got mad once we visited a milestone birthday celebration for an in-depth friend that I’d been looking forward to and he ruined it because he was so uncomfortable and miserable. I used to be so angry and that I had no idea what to try to do about it.